So ladies, let us speak about being the pursued. I know from personal experience we live in a “New Age” that holds strong to the concept of independent women. There used to be a time when the woman was the one pursued but now we have no problem “hollering” at the man. We see something we want and we do what we need to do to get it. So we pursue the brothers. When we do this we take away purpose from the man. He was created to find us. Not the other way around. Many of us have quoted, “He that findeth a wife findeth a good thing” (Proverbs 18:22) but we forget the latter half of the verse “he obtains favour from the Lord”. Ladies we have to raise our standards. When your husband finds you, he obtains favour from the Lord. Wow! We are that special to God that when our husbands find us they get an extra bonus from God.
Let us learn to be pursued. Men by nature are hunters. They were created to find us and provide. We were created to be helpmates to them. You know the two become one. Now I am not saying be a housewife (unless that is your calling) but we have to know our positions. Let us learn to be dependent on God that our “independence” as single women does not harm our relationships in the future. We are so important to God that He wants the men to search us out like the treasures that we are.
Learning to be pursued,
CHRISTina FAITH
P.s. brothers I got something for you all tomorrow.
